Category: Community

Following up from this article. I imagine from that article then comes the thought of…. “Well, I just want to make sure we can keep things safe. And in order to do that, we need to have certain standards that everyone needs to know”. These days we see many things on the internet about what’s… Continue reading How to do kink and how to use a kitchen knife.

Do we need guards to ensure that our community is a safe space? Yes.Do we need guards to dictate how things should be done in that space? No. We often hear about this ‘Old Guard’ and ‘New Guard’ thing in the leather community. I despise those. It prompts people to stereotype the diverse community we… Continue reading Everyone needs to be the Leather Guardian of Chaos.

Back in 2020, despite the heating up politics and polarizing community thanks to Trump, the world was pretty much okay. The 15 Association was wrapping up the greatest Anniversary, and sex was everywhere. Then few days after that, COVID-19 pandemic shut down everything in San Francisco. The whole leather community was shut down. For myself,… Continue reading The Eagle Dragon Leather Bar

Before reading this, I would like to encourage people who don’t know me to visit my Bio first.Indonesian often says if you don’t know the person, you don’t care about them.With all due respect, please do not pay any care of my articles before knowing more about me first 😀 In the previous article here,… Continue reading An Identity and A Family.

Before reading this, I would like to encourage people who don’t know me to visit my Bio first.Indonesian often says if you don’t know the person, you don’t care about them.With all due respect, please do not pay any care of my articles before knowing more about me first 😀 “Wait, you’re a Queer?” “Thirty… Continue reading A Fetish and a Space for Queer.