Thank you for checking this page.
You probably reached this page because you’re interested to learn more about me and learning the kind of things I like.
The elevator pitch:
I’m a BDSM player with a fetish in uniforms & leather.
I am a bottom.
My big turn-on is POW (prisoner of war), Interrogation, power dynamic forced submission, and humiliation scenes. I love getting kidnapped, interrogated, tortured, fucked, and forced into slavery. My pain threshold increase as Iām deeper and longer in my headspace.
The short list of kinky things I’m into are:
All kinds of Bondage, Impact play, Electro, Sensory Deprivation, Gags, CBT, TT, Edging, Piss, and Hypno.
The long list? Here is the spreadsheet :p
I have a husband, and we’re in an open relationship. Iām an active person in the leather community, I am a fraternal member of the 15 Association. Iām a certified Dungeon Monitor and in the 15 I train others to become DM.
FAQ
Q: Whoa,,, I don’t think I’m a hard player as hard as you!
A: Hey I’m gay (rainbow glitter exploding over)! I love cock! But please, at least tie me up. (duct tape? belt? zip tie?)
Q: I don’t know how to do military interrogation. Can we do something else?
A: Of course! However, I love power-dynamic scenes in general. So please be rough on me š
Q: Can you top for me, please? You look hot as a top!
A: Currently, I only bottom. I tried to be a top in the past, but I ended up projecting my bottom fantasy to the bottom I’m playing with. Most of the time, this scares the crap out of them. I’m open to assisting other top, but this is not a turn-on for me.
Q: If you don’t top me, I won’t top you.
A: I respectfully disagree with this kind of transactional approach many switches in the community believe in. I’m grown and raised by the brotherhood of my club (The 15) where we look after each other. I believe in relationships where things don’t have to be transactional. Also, often times switching with same person would ruin Dom/ Sub power dynamics that is important for many kink scenes especially roleplay. Perhaps in the future I can introduce you to a top that fits your fantasy? Also, see below about the NSA thing.
Q: Can we do NSA (No string attached)?
A: Kink doesn’t work in NSA environment, first play tends to be introductory, and we dig more deeper the more we know each other.
Good things will come to those who invest their time with me.
Q: Why are you so demanding as a bottom? You are a pushy bottom!
A: I’m just a bottom that knows what I want š If you don’t like me making demands: A. You’re always welcome to tell me you’re uncomfortable with what I asked; no offense will be taken. B. You can always gag me :p
Q: What is the must-have for our scene?
A: As I mentioned, I need to be tied up. This might be weird, but I’m so wired that I can only cum when tied up. If you’re trying to edge me, there’s a big chance that I will cum sooner than you expect; however, I can cum multiple times in short successions. I definitely need after care post-scene, cuddling is preferred and intimate kissing/ worship is a bonus.
Q: What safety & consent precautions do I need to know?
A: My safeword of course is safeword, this means I want everything to stop. I also can do green, yellow, and red. If I’m gagged, I would shakes my head continuously with short “uh uh” moans, or you would be able to tell from my tone changes. While I understand active consent (constantly checking on how I am doing) on introductory play, I would love prefer Informed and Opt-out consent (planning the scenes and just safewords). In interrogations, no safeword but a confession or attitude change is okay (which is also an opt-out).
Q: I’m feeling nervous since you’re a fraternal, a DM trainer, and such. What if I make mistakes? I don’t want to lose my chance to be a 15 member or be on the ban list.
A: Everyone makes mistakes, and nobody is perfect. As long as your intention is organic, I can tell, and you’re fine. If you’re trying to impress me too hard in order to gain favor from me, things are very likely to go wrong since you’re probably doing something beyond your comfort level. Basically, don’t try to get validation from me, just have fun.